How far you should face loneliness?

Hello

Have you ever wondered how far you should face loneliness?

There are many things in life that can only be created and obtained from loneliness.

Even if you know that, there are many people who somehow think that being lonely is a bad thing and always try to be with people.

When you make a choice, such as thinking about where your life is going, setting goals for what to do next,

and struggling to make that choice, you can't think with anyone. You have to be lonely.

If you make a life choice with someone,

that person will have to take responsibility for the consequences with you.

It is impossible for two or more people to continue to take responsibility for your life.

It can also be said that those who are afraid of loneliness and are always trying to stay with someone

have missed out on their own life choices and have acted to hold others accountable.

Sometimes it's possible to decide where to go in life by the moment, the atmosphere, and the influence of the surroundings,

but only when the result is 100% certain. Usually it is dangerous to be swept around and decided by the atmosphere of the group. .

Don't be afraid to be lonely when you need it, and think positively that it's time to decide when you're alone.

If you can deal with loneliness in a positive way, you will be able to make your own life choices.

Then you can make a decent decision for yourself at a nice timing when it matters.

However, in order to live in society, it may not work well if you are completely isolated.

In such a case, it is time to take a break from being lonely, stay away from loneliness, and then approach society and people.

You may be able to live your life well if you spend time thinking about which time is right now. Now the time to face loneliness? or the time to face others?

At that time you are in the society and face others, as a member of society and a member of the community, you need to have some lubricant.

For example, smiles and greetings, thank you, gift, sympathy, compassion etc.. Sometimes kind of contracts may also have the role of lubricating oil.

Don't forget to lubricate when you're away from loneliness for a while.

If you can use the lubricant well and spend good time with the people around you, then you will not be afraid of loneliness and can return to your precious time of loneliness.